It sounds like a problem plenty of men would trade for. It isn’t. When finishing takes forever or doesn’t happen at all, sex turns into work for both of you.
Delayed ejaculation is real, it’s more common than you’d think, and it usually has causes we can find.


Delayed ejaculation means it takes a very long time to finish, or you can’t finish at all, even with plenty of stimulation and desire. It might happen with every partner, only with a partner, or only in certain situations.
Some men have always had it. For others, it started later, which often points to a specific cause.
If testosterone may be involved, see our low testosterone page.

It depends on the cause. Medication changes can help within weeks, and other approaches build over a few months.
Results vary. Your plan will be based on your own evaluation.

There’s no single proven pill for delayed ejaculation, and anyone who says otherwise is overselling. The good news: finding and fixing the cause, especially medication effects and low testosterone, often works, and the other options help many men.
We’re a cash-pay clinic, so there are no surprise insurance bills.
Pelvic floor therapy and sex therapy are through specialists we trust, and are billed by them.
Delayed ejaculation usually has a cause, and finding it takes time and a full workup, not a quick prescription. We look at medications, hormones, nerves, and habits together.
It’s the most common cause. Don’t stop it on your own. We can coordinate with your prescriber about adjusting or switching.
Not a single proven one. A few medications are sometimes used off-label, with limited evidence. Fixing the cause usually works better.
It can be. We’ll check your levels as part of the evaluation.
Sometimes it plays a part, but physical causes are common too. We look at both.
It can make conceiving harder. If that’s a goal, tell us, and we’ll build the plan around it.
Book a consultation and bring your questions, even the awkward ones. Especially the awkward ones.